When I’m in a funk I have a tendency to complain to anyone who can hear me. Obviously, this doesn’t help them and it doesn’t help me. As soon as I catch myself doing this I force myself to shift gears.

Complaining only makes things worse. Find a solution.


Bottom line is that you’re never going to get where you wanna be by complaining about where you are right now.

Each step in your life is preparing you for the one that comes after it. 

Any time spent complaining is a missed opportunity to actually do something positive instead of wasting our energy on something that only makes us unhappier.

If you put 10% of the energy that you put into complaining and applied it to solving your present problem. You’d be surprised at how well and how fast things can work out.

But I will tell you, I forget this sometimes.

And I’m writing this too to remind myself of this.

Feeling like you want to complain, feeling defeated and discouraged is a sign that it’s time to make a change


Make that change.

I think down deep inside every single one of us knows what that change should be.

  • Could be a change of heart.
  • A change of habits.
  • Or even a change of perspective.

But realizing that the way things are going isn’t working anymore.

Be inspired, let’s make it happen!

X Nicole